Husband Entrusts Hospice to Care for His Wife in Her Final Year

Larry MacLeod
Larry holds a photo of his late wife Marcella.

Beginning with a long courtship and throughout 63 years of marriage, Larry and Marcella MacLeod experienced a life together full of depth, adventure and, above all, love. Both small-town natives, they knew of each other because they were from neighboring towns, but they each moved away to pursue successful careers. It wasn’t until several years later that Larry and Marcella would come together as a couple.

Larry built his legacy in the education and athletic arenas, starting out as an English teacher and eventually moving into athletics for more than 35 years at Minnesota State University Moorhead as the head men’s basketball coach, and later, the athletic director.

Marcella found success as an administrative assistant initially working for the State Department in Washington, D.C., during WWII, then moving to Rochester, Minn., to work alongside the chief administrator at Mayo Clinic. Her path eventually brought her back to the Red River Valley, working at WDAY in Fargo.

But it was in Moorhead, Minn., where the couple made their home, raised one son, and shared a wonderful life full of many travels and love. They were inseparable until 2011 when Marcella unexpectedly fell, breaking her hip.

After the fall, she moved into an assisted living facility for three months, and her family made plans to move her into an independent living community with Larry after she recovered. Marcella only spent one week with Larry in that new home before experiencing a second devastating fall that broke her hip again.

Larry recognized the new challenges Marcella faced meant he would be unable to care for her on his own, as they originally planned. Instead, she would reside in an assisted living facility just down the road from Larry, and he sought the assistance of Hospice of the Red River Valley to care for Marcella in the final year of her life.

“There were limits in the facility she was staying at, and I couldn’t do a lot of the things that Hospice does, as much as I might have wanted to, I couldn’t,” Larry explained. “So I decided to have Hospice come in. From what I envisioned and what I talked with Hospice staff about, I was happy with how they cared for Marcella.”

Larry MacLeod_pull quoteEven though Larry wasn’t able to be with Marcella as much as he wanted to because they lived separately, he felt comfortable entrusting Hospice staff with her care. He had confidence in their ability to care for her needs, some of which included personal cares, nursing assistance and chaplaincy visits. Hospice volunteers also provided companionship for Marcella.

“It provided a lot of relief to know Marcella had that extra care,” he said. “I got the impression they [Hospice staff] did it out of the goodness of their hearts. It was obvious to me that caring for her was a labor of love, and I appreciated it.”

With the support of Hospice, Larry could focus on spending precious one-on-one time with his wife. His familiarity with the concept of hospice care through previous support of the organization also provided some peace of mind. “I don’t think it’s an end-of-life thing, necessarily,” he shared. “There are many things that can be done for a person before they die. That’s what happened in this case. She lived the best quality of life for as long as she could. I am happy they could do that for her.”

About Hospice of the Red River Valley
In 1981, Hospice of the Red River Valley was founded on the belief that everyone deserves access to high-quality end-of-life care. We fulfill our nonprofit mission by providing medical, emotional, personal and spiritual care, as well as grief support to our patients, their families and caregivers during a tender time in life. Our staff helps those we serve experience more meaningful moments through exceptional hospice care, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, wherever a patient calls home. The organization serves more than 40,000 square miles in North Dakota and Minnesota, including in and around Bismarck, Detroit Lakes, Devils Lake, Fargo, Fergus Falls, Grand Forks, Lisbon, Thief River Falls, Valley City and many more communities. Hospice of the Red River Valley offers round-the-clock availability via phone, prompt response times and same-day admissions, including evenings, weekends and holidays. Contact us anytime at 800-237-4629 or


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